For our family’s budget, I use a product with the on-the-nose name You Need A Budget.
There are two key points to a successful budget, according to YNAB:
- Don’t budget money you don’t have – Don’t plan for your next paycheck. It’s not real until you have it.
- Give every dollar a job – Make a budget category for everything. Don’t just leave money in a pile in your bank. Be intentional about what you plan to do with it.
It’s good advice, but recently I wondered why I don’t apply it to my to-do list.
Here’s how I normally plan a day:
Saturday
- Wake up at 5
- Exercise
- Meditate
- Do some stretching
- Spend quality time with family
- Fix washing machine
- Catch up on work email
- Catch up on personal email
- Journal
- Take a walk
Here’s what the list looks like at the end of this hypothetical day
- Wake up at
57:30 - Exercise
Meditate- Do some stretching
- Spend quality time with family
- Fix washing machine
Catch up on work email– partialCatch up on personal email– partial- Journal
- Take a walk
- NEW – do a bunch of random crap that wasn’t on the list.
Not very impressive.
I think I’ve discovered why I fail. I don’t respect time.
A scattershot list with no regard to how long each thing takes is recipe for failure.
Here’s how to fix it. Use a calendar. If you slot the things you want to do into an actual calendar, it forces you to be realistic about what you can accomplish.
Let’s try my Saturday plan again, but this time in a calendar:
Saturday | Activity |
midnight – 5am | sleep |
5am – 6am | meditate, stretch, and journal |
6am – 8am | exercise |
9am – 10am | shower |
10am – 11am | personal and work email cleanup |
11am – 2pm | lunch and spend time with family |
2pm – 3pm | fix washing machine |
3pm – 4pm | take a walk |
4pm – 8pm | dinner and more family time |
8pm – 9pm | review tomorrow and prepare for bed |
9pm – 10pm | read and/or tv |
10pm – midnight | sleep |
It’s the same stuff, but tying it to the calendar makes it much more likely to get done. It adds the element of time to an amorphous list of tasks. It also serves as a natural deterrent to overcommitting, as there are only so many hours in a day.
I think I’ll also add in blocks of buffer time, so when the unexpected happens there is room to adjust without blowing up the whole day.
Give it a try!